There are moments

When are you most happy?

Like these:

We favor a Mexican place, but each of my friends and I tend to gravitate towards one or a few specific restaurants.

Speaking of lunch with a friend

Let me expand on this particular Mexican restaurant.

They deconstruct a delicious street food and serve it in a paper coffee cup. This touch kind of preserves the feel of a «off a food truck« delicacy when you dig in on the mix of flavors. The corn has been de-cobbed, as it were, for ease of eating. Aka, it’s not as sloppy a dish at table as when you walk through a street-fair.

We both really enjoy this menu choice at Tacombi

There’s an industrial feel to the location (ours is on the UES), and I see from their website that they favor this look. Other Tacombis have converted garages into dining rooms. It’s a style. I love it.

“Jumbotron Man”

A “Grace and Frankie” epenthesis

“If I asked you to marry me in a public place, would you say yes.”

“What? To be polite?,” she said.

“Seriously, would you?”

“No. I’m not ready. And you’re not the guy.”

Okay, he thought, hope holding back his tears, it’s too soon. She’s not ready. I’ll wait til the summer, ask her at a baseball game. The Lakers kind of suck, anyway.

Mistakes were made

A very short story

“She said no,” he said as he walked into the bar.  His friends gave out a communal sigh of deflation. “She said never,” he said.

“She doesn’t know what she’s missing,” John said. “She said never,” he repeated.

John patted his back with the thunderous confidence of a real pal. “She doesn’t know what she’s missing.”

He looked sheepish. He said, “She does. She knows what she’s missing.” He had allowed a sob to escape.

“She doesn’t want me,” he said with a mix of pain and surprise.

John said, “The waitress likes you. She’ll say yes.” The friends settled into weekday chit-chat and more beer.

A few weeks passed like this, with John urging him to move on, and he calling upon her rejection. The bar was quieter. Again, he said, “She said never.

A girl, if girls can be in their late 30s, walked over to the table. John nodded to the friends to step away. The girl sat without asking.

He found himself laughing. They ordered burgers and a salad to share. “She has great teeth,” he said to himself. “I mean, I like her smile.”

“Where do you live,” the girl asked, “I’ll come make you supper Friday night.”

He demurred. “Are you sure?” The girl nodded. “I’m a good plain cook. I’ll make fish on Friday. Fish and rice.”

Sheila stopped him on the street. “You’ve recovered. Quickly,” she said.

“You said never,” he said. Sheila said, “Never is a long time. I meant not now, not then.

“You recovered quickly,” Sheila said again. “Never,” he said.

Sheila reached over to adjust an errant curl on his forehead. He said, “You said no.” Sheila kissed his cheek lightly, familiarly as she turned to walk away.

Posters

The poster has been dorm room art for very many years.

The Poster House is a museum that treats posters as art and their designers as artists.

A poster for a bygone event is now a work of art  decorating a French cafe.

Lithographs were created as commercial art. They were made as accessible reproductions of famous works by famous artists.

They were utilitarian or they proselitized, or they were affordable, or they were mementos.

Poster House shows the best of these and expounds on their background. It houses a huge variety of these types of artwork.

Poster House displayed political art as well as advertising art at the exhibits I saw.

My first visit to the museum was in tribute to a boss back in the day who started his businesses selling posters via catalog.

Admission is  free on the First Fridays of the month.

It’s a sweet and friendly space. Go and enjoy it.

Music to your ears

You are hard-wired to react to music. We all are.

This is a neurological fact.

Music is what we, or rather our forefathers, used to communicate before they developed language.

You might think of song as words before words were formed.

This is amazing, as is the theory you will hear about in the video linked above.

Music releases dopamine.

It can help alleviate pain.

Music can stimulate memory as well.

It can mitigate the effects of Parkinson’s.

It also helps with other neuro- degenerative diseases.

Professor Daniel Levitan will tell you more in his conversation at StarTalk.

Operation.Boot.Return

It sounded like a CIA operation. It was not what I intended.

My operation was a simple and straightforward return. Amazon has certainly spoiled us for that; no bag, no box, no return label.

This shipping and shopping behemoth spoiled us with quick heck even same day delivery. There was a portent in this order; it took weeks to arrive.

My complaint wasn’t the delay; even the vagueness of who the merchant might be didn’t rile me. Yes, portents and mystery came with this transaction.

I was promised an infomercial’s worth of ‘great for wearing in the snow’ and ‘so comfortable for older women’ that the stiffness of this boot irked. Of course, the boot looks great from its forest green exterior and nice design to the neat angle of its raised heel. It doesn’t feel great.

So, long story short [I hear you saying ‘that ship has sailed’] I called customer service. “We’ll call you in 26 hours; if you don’t answer, we’ll send an email with the address for the return.”

I asked about the logistics of my return.

“You’ll get an email  telling you all about that.” Click.

The address for the return is somewhere in Guangdong Province China. I am not kidding.

Shipping charges would fall to me. Unheard of in the annals of easy returns!

Included in this email was this wisdom: “We advise you to stay with the product and we can give you a $ 18 dollar refund otherwise continue to send the product back to us.”

Always accept good advice when it’s generously offered. At least I shall.

A little gift

My Starbucks addiction has to do with the app and rewards. Now that the new CEO has cut back the company give-backs, I am weaning myself.

For a while, I accepted every challenge [and met most].

Let’s face it, my (bought) loyalty garnered me 100 points here and there. In real life, that’s the occasional free iced coffee.

To get the full bang for my buck, I always ordered the Trenta.

That’s a lot of coffee, and a lot more than doctor- recommended.

As a once staunch critic of the brand, I should have eschewed these prizes. As a gamer, I had to play.

No offers.

Oh, good. I can get a cup I might actually enjoy elsewhere.

I am missing out on the points that come automatically from each purchase. A pass, I am willing to make.